You want a man who can physically pick you up … so you don’t feel like a fat cow.
You want a man with legs/torso/arms bigger that yours … so you don’t feel like a fat cow.
You want a man who isn’t “frail” or “breakable” so you can feel diminutive, which is what you think a woman should feel like.
You don’t choose men based on your actual attraction to them, you use them as tools to fix your pathetic self-esteem issues.
Ladies, you disgust me.
So, if you unfollow me because I like pictures of very thin women, have anorexia and don’t necessarily think of it as the most horrible thing ever, don’t find curvy women to be beautiful, etc. I honestly don’t care. However, I am an “intelligence positive” person, and I feel that instead of having a whole body positive movement, we should teach young women and men how to use their minds in order to think for themselves and make decisions on their own regarding what they find to be attractive, and teach them how to make their own standards. Also, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. My idea of beauty sure as hell isn’t the majority’s idea of beauty, and I am very apathetic with regards to this. I have an obsession with thinness when it comes to both genders, and I think the less fat and muscle, the more attractive that person is. Furthermore, I am very much a sapiosexual. (Sapiosexual- One who finds intelligence to be the sexiest trait of the opposite, the same, or both sexes.) Someone else might disagree and find muscle attractive, and others might find a bit of fat attractive. It’s all up to you to find out what you think is attractive or acceptable. If I can give anyone any advice, it would be to stop joining these movements which enable insecurity on a large scale by masking it in falsified “body positive support”, and learn to think for yourself. Also, there’s nothing wrong with wanting to improve yourself by losing weight, or gaining weight if you feel the need to. Just stop letting everyone else think for you and learn how to use your own fucking mind.
